Honestly Amazon makes this way harder than it should be. We had the exact same issue when preping for our nursery. You cant do it natively, but you should just get a cart sharing extension. We used one called Share-a-Cart and it worked perfectly. You just create a code, send it over, and he can grab all those curtains and sleep sacks instantly. Super easy.

@Reply #2 - good point! Jumping in here because I went through this exact budget crunch when prepping for my first kid. We tried a couple of different workarounds to keep our nursery spend under $500. Here is how the two main options actually stack up in practice. Third-party cart sharing extensions:

• Pros: They copy your entire cart instantly. Super fast for bulk sending blackout curtains and sleep sacks.
• Cons: It is just a snapshot, not a live sync. If you update your cart later, you have to generate a new link. Some people also worry about privacy with browser extensions reading cart data. Amazon Wish Lists (configured for collaboration):
• Pros: Secure and native. You can both edit it in real-time, and it helps keep track of the budget since you see the total cost of listed items.
• Cons: Extremely clunky. Your husband will have to manually move every single item from the list to his cart to checkout, which defeats the quick checkout vibe. If you want to save money and stay organized, the list method is safer for budget tracking, but the extensions are way faster for just getting the buying done. Just pick whichever fits your workflow.

Regarding what #1 said about "Honestly Amazon makes this way harder than it..." they're totally right! When we built our nursery, I was so stressed staying under budget. I started using carttolink.com and it was a total gamechanger! It creates a simple link of your cart items that you can just text over. Super easy and works perfectly for sorting out those blackout curtains together!