Honestly, just be upfront about it. Most people would rather give you something you actually need than waste money on a random candle you'll just donate later anyway. When we moved, we used a digital registry specifically for renovation costs. It works because it gives people a clear goal to fund rather than just feeling like they are handed a bill. You could check out Honeyfund or a similar cash-registry site to set this up professionally. Just keep the wording casual on the invite. Mention that you are focusing on the renovation budget and while their presence is the real gift, a contribution to the fixer-upper fund is appreciated if they really want to give something. It is a direct approach and saves everyone the hassle of dealing with gift receipts. People usually appreciate not having to guess what you want, plus kitchen gadgets are a nightmare to store when you are mid-reno.

Been thinking about your post for a bit and I actually have a slightly different take! While cash is fantastic for that 5k budget, asking for it directly can sometimes feel a bit risky with more traditional guests. You should try creating a themed project registry instead so people feel like they are contributing to something permanent! It is an amazing way to bridge the gap. Here is what I would do:

• Set up a fund specifically for things like The Kitchen Tile Fund or New Porch Paint
• Use Share Product to pull together specific items you need from different stores into one organized list
• Keep the amounts small so people can pick what fits their budget, like 25 dollar increments
• Explain exactly what the renovation goal is so they feel involved This approach feels way more professional and safe than a generic cash link. I love the idea of a fixer upper, its gonna look incredible once you guys get started!